Not helping

Why is it that when people break up their friends and family and acquaintances feel the need to offer opinions and advices that are really not helping? If you say your heart is broken they will say it'll pass before you know it. Not helping. If you say you just broke up they say good riddance. Not helping. They ask you after 2 weeks if you're still heart broken about it? Seriously? If you say your trying to get used to the idea of not being together they say go get yourself a 19 year old and enjoy. Are you kidding me? For the past 5 years she has been a major part of my life and that doesn't just go away. People telling me or her that we are better off without each other is not helping. There is a lot of mourning in front of us and people belittling our relationship is NOT helping. Little space, time and respect would be nice. I do not need a new relationship or one night stand or whatever to get better and get over it. I do not need people telling me that it'll be ok and I'll be better for it. What I need is a job a year ago, a green card and a house by the beach but that didn't happen so now I'm playing with the cards I was dealt with. Unfortunately that means no Tiffany. I'll deal with it on my own on my own time. When I'm over it I'll let you know. In the meantime, I'd appreciate no stupid advice or questions, thank you.